Why is attracting my Soul Mate so Hard?

Attracting your Soulmate involves aligning your energy, beliefs, and actions with the kind of love you desire.

Here’s a spiritual and practical guide to manifesting your soulmate:

1. Clarify Your Vision

• Define Your Ideal Partner: Write down qualities you value emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

• Really look at what you Value the most also in your partner.

• Visualize the Relationship: See yourself in a loving, supportive partnership. Feel the emotions of being loved and cherished.

2. Heal and Release Blocks from old relationships.

Many times so many people go from one relationship to another and then another without ever clearing the energy cords from the old person. There is always a transference of energy between people, so when its not cleared, an entanglement happens. Just picture a ball of yarn in you.

• Cut Energetic Cords: Release past relationships or unresolved emotional ties through energy healing. Speak with an energy healer or someone who is an expert in cord cutting for relationships.

• Inner Child Work: Heal wounds that may block intimacy or trust.

• Shadow Work: Address limiting beliefs about love and worthiness.

3. Raise Your Vibration

• Self-Love Rituals- Practice daily affirmations, gratitude, and nurturing routines.

• Eating to fuel your body for energy and drinking plenty of water.

• Saying NO to invites that drain your energy or people-pleasing tendencies.

• Energy Clearing: Regular Reiki or meditation can keep your energy clear and receptive. Learn how to do it or find a practitioner to go to monthly.

• Move the Body- yoga, running, walking, weight training, and sports

• Music

• Environment- clean and organize your environment. Purge old stuff and recognize whats no longer needed.

4. Embody the Love You Seek

• Be the Partner You Want: Cultivate the qualities you seek in a soulmate. How are you with you?

• Show Up Authentically: Be yourself and let your light shine without fear of rejection. Express yourself and be how you are. Look at your qualities and showing up fully and taking space in the world.

• Be Open and Honest: Keep an open heart with yourself and others

• Caring/Compassion

• Readiness: Be honest with yourself if you are ready or need more time?

• Easy to forgive or not: Cultivate qualities of unconditional love and forgiveness. We all know that life can get messy and in times little tough. Be open to forgiveness. Know that everyone is doing the best they can with what they know.

5. Take Inspired Action

• Be Open to Connection: Attend events, workshops, or communities aligned with your interests.

• Trust Divine Timing: Release attachment to the outcome and trust the universe’s plan.

Hope you found this helpful!

We can always do some deeper work with attracting the perfect Soul Mate!

Hustle and Grace in the same space,

Joann